Now, im not really an expert on getting over people but ive learnt some new things in the past few months. I think one of the biggest, most roughest situations im in right now is getting over someone and the truth be told, its pretty shit. Im not going to say that its all going to be okay because that might not be the case but personally, i think i know what helps.
In order to accept this, you have to change, I dont man change you. I mean change the world around you. Do things you never would have done with them, things you never would have even thought about doing. Be careful in understanding what i mean though. I dont mean go out in the streets and be with random strangers you dont know, thats not going to help you. You need to plan things, things to get excited for. Things that will distract you, change your experiences, things that they were never a part of.
Make new memories because right now, the memories you have our haunted by them. Sure, it was a lovely time during your life but move on to bigger and better. Plan things that will take you far away, it could be as small as moving the bed to a different angle to packing a bag and taking off to india.
For my personally, ive learnt change can be one of the best drugs for this sort of stuff. If you give yourself something to look forward to, something that has nothing to do with them and never will, it distracts you. It takes you away from that place and gives you new memories. Ones that make you think 'you know that was really amazing, and it was all without them'. Its times like those you realise you can do it all without them.
Make a bucket list. Surround yourself with change. New people, new places, new experiences. Its the best medicine for me. Change is good, embrace it.
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